Everyone Needs A Paul, A Barnabas, And A Timothy In His Life

PAUL: Yesterday, I had coffee with an old friend who set out a decade ago to affect the business community of his city for Christ. God graciously granted him a reasonably fruitful ministry. Along the way, however, his marriage fell apart. “Dwight, if I had had a Paul in my life, my marriage would not have failed.” As he spoke, I was reminded of 1 Corinthians 4:14:

Even though you have ten thousand guardians in Christ, you do not have many fathers, for in Christ Jesus I became your father through the gospel. Therefore I urge you to imitate me. (See 1 Corinthians 4:16; 11:1; Philippians 3:7; 4:9)

QUESTION: Do you currently have a Paul in your life? Someone who knows the real you? Someone who challenges you? Someone who models godly character and discipline, and builds them into your life? Someone who lends a more mature perspective to your life? Someone who has earned your trust enough to probe the sensitive and hidden areas of your life? Someone who is committed to walking with you through the difficult times? In a word, a Paul. A spiritual father.

BARNABAS (“Encourager” – Acts 4:36) was used of God to bring Paul out of Antioch and into a fruitful ministry where the two of them teamed up. (Acts 11:25, 26) (See Acts 11:30; 12:25; 13:1, 2, 14, 43, 46, 50; 14:1-3, 23; 15:12, 22, 34)

QUESTION: Do you have a Barnabas in your life? A buddy with whom you can freely share the good, the bad, and the ugly? Someone who will tell it like it is when you don’t want to hear it? (Proverbs 27:6) Someone who is committed to hanging in there with you through thick and thin? (Proverbs 17:17; 18:24)

TIMOTHY: In his travels, Paul ran into a young follower of Christ named Timothy (Acts 16:1-4). For the next decade or so, the Apostle invested deeply into his life. Reflecting back on their friendship, Paul wrote,

Youknow all about my teaching, my way of life, my purpose, faith, patience, love, endurance, persecutions, sufferings—what kinds of things happened to methe persecutions I endured (2 Timothy 3:10, 11a,c) (See Acts 20:18)

In similar fashion, Paul encouraged Timothy to also invest his life into others: “And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable men who will also be qualified to teach others. (2 Timothy 2:2) (See 1 Thessalonians 1:5, 6)

QUESTION: Do you have a Timothy in your life? Someone into whose life you are currently investing?

Having a Paul, a Barnabas, and a Timothy in our life will indeed play a significant role in (1) fostering our growth toward spiritual maturity, and (2) helping us fulfill Christ’s Great Commission.

The Weapon of Prayer: God’s Need of People Who Pray

By E. M. Bounds

We proceed now to declare that it demands prayer-leadership to hold the Church to Gods aims, and to fit it for Gods uses.  Prayer-leadership preserves the spirituality of the Church, just as prayerless leaders make for unspiritual conditions.  The Church is not spiritual simply by the mere fact of its existence, nor by its vocation.  It is not held to its sacred vocation by generation, nor by succession.  Like the new birth, It is not of blood, neither of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.

The Church is not spiritual simply because it is concerned and deals in spiritual values.  It may hold its confirmations by the thousand, it may multiply its baptisms, and administer its sacraments innumerable times, and yet be as far from fulfilling its true mission as human conditions can make it.

This present worlds general attitude retires prayer to insignificance and obscurity.  By it, salvation and eternal life are put in the background.  It cannot be too often affirmed, therefore, that the prime need of the Church is not men of money nor men of brains, but men of prayer.  Leaders in the realm of religious activity are to be judged by their praying habits, and not by their money or social position.  Those who must be placed in the forefront of the Churchs business, must be, first of all, men who know how to pray.

God does not conduct His work, solely, with men of education or of wealth or of business capacity.  Neither can He carry on His work through men of large intellects or of great culture, nor yet through men of great social eminence and influence.  All these can be made to count provided they are not regarded as being primary.  These men, by the simple fact of these qualities and conditions, cannot lead in Gods work nor control His cause.  Men of prayer, before anything else, are indispensable to the furtherance of the kingdom of God on earth.  No other sort will fit in the scheme or do the deed.  Men, great and influential in other things, but small in prayer, cannot do the work Almighty God has set out for His Church to do in this, His world.

Men who represent God and who stand here in His stead, men who are to build up His kingdom in this world, must be in an eminent sense men of prayer.  Whatever else they may have, whatever else they may lack, they must be men of prayer.  Having everything else and lacking prayer, they must fail.  Having prayer and lacking all else, they can succeed.  Prayer must be the most conspicuous and the most potent factor in the character and conduct of men who undertake divine commission.  Gods business requires men who are versed in the business of praying.

It must be kept in mind that the praying to which the disciples of Christ is called by Scriptural authority and enforcement, is a valorous calling, for manly men.  The men God wants and upon whom He depends, must work at prayer just as they work at their worldly calling.  They must follow this business of praying through, just as they do their secular pursuits.  Diligence, perseverance. heartiness, and courage, must all be in it if it is to succeed.

Everything secured by Gospel promise, defined by Gospel measure, and represented by Gospel treasure are to be found in prayer.  All heights are scaled by it, all doors are opened to it, all victories are gained through it, and all grace distills on it.  Heaven has all its good and all its help for men who pray.

How marked and strong is the injunction of Christ which sends men from the parade of public giving and praying to the privacy of their closets, where with shut doors, and in encircling silence they are alone in prayer with God!

In all ages, those who have carried out the divine will on the earth, have been men of prayer.  The days of prayer are Gods halcyon days.  His heart, His oath, and His glory are committed to one issuance — that every knee should how to Him. The day of the Lord, in a preeminent sense, will be a day of universal prayer.

Gods cause does not suffer through lack of divine ability, but by reason of the lack of prayer ability in man.  Gods action is just as much bound up in prayer at this time, as it was when He said to Abimelech, Abraham shall pray for thee, and thou shalt live.  So also it was when God said to Jobs friends, My servant Job shall pray for you, for him will I accept.

Gods great plan for the redemption of mankind is as much bound up to prayer for its prosperity and success as when the decree creating the movement was issued from the Father, bearing on its frontage the imperative, universal and eternal condition, Ask of me, and I will give thee the heathen for thy inheritance and the uttermost part of the earth for thy possession.

In many places an alarming state of things has come to pass, in that the many who are enrolled in our churches are not praying men and women.  Many of those occupying prominent positions in church life are not praying men.  It is greatly to feared that much of the work of the Church is being done by those who are perfect strangers to the closet.  Small wonder that the work does not succeed.

While it may be true that many in the Church say prayers, it is equally true that their praying is of the stereotyped order.  Their prayers may be charged with sentiment, but they are tame, timid, and without fire or force.  Even this sort of praying is done by a few straggling men to be found at prayer-meetings.  Those whose names are to be found bulking large in our great Church assemblies are not men noted for their praying habits.  Yet the entire fabric of the work in which they are engaged has, perforce, to depend on the adequacy of prayer.  This fact is similar to the crisis which would be created were a country to have to admit in the face of an invading foe that it cannot fight and have no knowledge of the weapons whereby war is to be waged.

In all Gods plans for human redemption, He proposes that men pray.  The men are to pray in every place, in the church, in the closet, in the home, on sacred days and on secular days.  All things and everything are dependent on the measure of mens praying.

Prayer is the genius and mainspring of life.  We pray as we live; we live as we pray.  Life will never be finer than the quality of the closet.  The mercury of life will rise only by the warmth of the closet.  Persistent non-praying eventually will depress life below zero.

To measure and weigh the conditions of prayer, is readily to discover why men do not pray in larger numbers.  The conditions are so perfect, so blessed, that it is a rare character who can meet them.  A heart all love, a heart that holds even its enemies in loving contemplation and prayerful concern, a heart from which all bitterness, revenge and envy are purged — how rare!  Yet this is the only condition of mind and heart in which a man can expect to command the efficacy of prayer.

There are certain conditions laid down for authentic praying.  Men are to pray, lifting up holy hands; hands here being the symbol of life.  Hands unsoiled by stains of evil doing are the emblem of a life unsoiled by sin.  Thus are men to come into the presence of God, thus are they to approach the throne of the Highest, where they can obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.  Here, then, is one reason why men do not pray.  They are too worldly in heart and too secular in life to enter the closet; and even though they enter there, they cannot offer the fervent, effectual prayer of the righteous man, which availeth much.

Again, hands are the symbols of supplication.  Outstretched hands stand for an appeal for help.  It is the silent yet eloquent attitude of a helpless soul standing before God, appealing for mercy and grace.  Hands, too, are symbols of activity, power and conduct.  Hands outstretched to God in prayer must be holy hands, unstained hands. The word holy here means undefiled, unspotted, untainted, and religiously observing every obligation.  How far remote is all this from the character of the sin-loving, worldly-minded, fleshly disposed men, soiled by fleshly lusts, spotted by worldly indulgence, unholy in heart and conduct!  He who seeks equity must do equity, is the maxim of earthly courts.  So he who seeks Gods good gifts must practice Gods good deeds.  This is the maxim of heavenly courts.

Prayer is sensitive, and always affected by the character and conduct of him who prays.  Water cannot rise above its own level, and a spotless prayer cannot flow from a spotted heart.  Straight praying is never born of crooked conduct.  The men, what men are, behind their praying, that gives character to their supplication.  The craven heart cannot do brave praying.  Soiled men cannot make clean, pure supplication.

It is neither words, nor thoughts nor ideas, nor feelings, which shape praying, but character and conduct.  Men must walk in upright fashion in order to be able to pray well.  Bad character and unrighteous living break down praying until it becomes a mere shibboleth.  Praying takes its tone and vigour from the life of the man or the woman exercising it.  When character and conduct are at a low ebb, praying can but barely live, much less thrive.

The man of prayer, whether layman or preacher, is Gods right-hand man.  In the realm of spiritual affairs, he creates conditions, inaugurates movements, brings things to pass.

By the fact and condition of their creation and redemption, all men are under obligation to pray.  Every man can pray, and every man should pray.  But when it comes to the affairs of the Kingdom, let it be said, at once, that a prayerless man in the Church of God is like a paralysed organ of the physical body.  He is out of place in the communion of saints, out of harmony with God, and out of accord with His purposes for mankind.  A prayerless man handicaps the vigour and life of the whole system like a demoralized soldier is a menace to the force of which he forms part, in the day of battle.  The absence of prayer lessens all the life-forces of the soul, cripples faith, sets aside holy living, shuts out heaven.  Between praying saints and non-praying men, in Holy Scripture, the line is sharply drawn.  Of Fletcher of Madeley — one of the praying saints — it is written that He was far more abundant in his public labours than the greater part of his companions in the holy ministry.  Yet these bore but little proportion to those internal exercises of prayer and supplication to which he was wholly given up in private, which were almost uninterruptedly maintained from hour to hour.  He lived in the spirit of prayer, and whatever employment in which he was engaged, this spirit of prayer was constantly manifested through them all.

Without this he neither formed any design, nor entered upon any duty.  Without this he neither read nor conversed.  Without this, he neither visited nor received a visitor.  There have been seasons of supplications in which he appeared to be carried out far beyond the ordinary limits of devotion, when, like his Lord upon the Mount of Transfiguration, while he continued to pour out his mighty prayer, the fashion of his countenance has been changed, and his face has appeared as the face of an angel.

God, raise up more men of praying like John Fletcher!  How we do need, in this our day, men through whom God can work!

The Church Walking With The World/Poem

Matilda C. Edwards

The Church and the World walked far apart
On the changing shores of time,
The World was singing a giddy song,
and the Church a hymn sublime.
“Come, give me your hand,” said the merry World,
“And walk with me this way!”
But the good Church hid her snowy hands
And solemnly answered “Nay,
I will not give you my hand at all,
And I will not walk with you;
Your was is the way that leads to death;
Your words are all untrue.”

Nay, walk with me but a little space,”
Said the World with a kindly air;
“The road I walk is a pleasant road,
And the sun shines always there;
Your path is thorny and rough and rude,
But mine is broad and plain;
My way is paved with flowers and dews,
And your with tears and pain;
The sky to me is always blue,
No want, no toil I know;
The sky above you is always dark,
Your lot is a lot of woe;
There’s room enough for you and me,
To travel side by side.”

Half shyly the Church approached the World
And gave him her hand of snow;
And the old World grasp it and walked along,
Saying, in accents low,
“Your dress is to simple to please my taste,
I will give you pearls to wear,
Rich velvets and silks for your graceful form,
And diamonds to deck your hair.”
The Church looked down at her plain white robes,
And then at the dazzling World,
And blushed as she saw his handsome lip
With a smile contemptuous curled.
“I will change my dress for a costlier one,”
Said the Church with a smile of grace;
Then her pure white garments drifted away,
And the World gave, in their place,
Beautiful satins and shinning silks,
Roses and gems and costly pearls;
While over her forehead her bright hair fell
Crisped in a thousand curls.

Your house is too plain,” said the proud old World,
“I’ll build you one like mine;
With walls of marble and towers of gold,
And furniture ever so fine.”
So he built her a costly and beautiful house;
Most splendid it was to behold;
Her sons and her beautiful daughters dwelt there
Gleaming in purple and gold;
Rich fairs and shows in the halls were held,
And the World and his children were there.
Laughter and music and feasts were heard
in the place that was meant for prayer.
There were cushioned seats for the rich and the gay,
To sit in their pomp and pride;
But the poor who were clad in shabby array,
Sat meekly down outside.
“You give too much to the poor,” said the World.
“Far more than you ought to do;
If they are in need of shelter and food,
Why need it trouble you?
Go, take your money and buy rich robes,
Buy horses and carriages fine;
Buy pearls and jewels and dainty food,
Buy the rarest and costliest wine;
My children they dote on all these things,
And if you their love would win
You must do as they do, and walk in the ways
That they are walking in.”

So the poor were turned from her door in scorn,
And she heard not the orphan’s cry;
But she drew her beautiful robes aside,
As the windows went weeping by.

Then the sons of the World and the sons of the Church
Walked closely hand and heart,
And only the Master who knoweth all,
Could tell the two apart.
Then the Church sat down at her ease, and said,
“I am rich and my goods increase;
I have need of nothing, or aught to do,
But to laugh, and dance, and feast.”
The sly World heard, and he laughed in his sleeve
And mockingly said, aside-
“The Church is fallen, the beautiful Church;
And her shame is her boast and her pride.”

The angel drew near to the mercy seat,
And whispered in sighs her name;
Then the loud anthems of rapture were hushed,
And heads were covered with shame;
And a voice was heard at last by the Church
From Him who sat on the throne,
“I know thy works, and how thou hast said,
‘I am rich, and hast not known
That thou art naked, poor and blind,
And wretched before my face;’
Therefore from my presence cast I thee out,
And blot thy name from its place.”

“…you shall be holy to Me, for I the Lord am holy, and have separated you from the peoples, that you should be Mine.” Leviticus 20:26

“Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? And what accord has Christ with Belial? Or what part has a believer with an unbeliever? And what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For you are the temple of the living God. As God has said: ‘I will dwell in them and walk among them. I will be their God, and they shall be My people.’

Therefore ‘Come out from among them and be separate,‘ says the Lord. ‘Do not touch what is unclean, and I will receive you. I will be a Father to you, and you shall be My sons and daughters,’ says the Lord Almighty.” 2 Corinthians 6:14-18

by Matilda C. Edwards

Best Loved Poems (Garden City, NY: Garden City Publishing, 1936), pages 345-347.

This poem was not listed among those that required reprint permission.

What’s the Point?

It’s granted that a good number of Bible believing Christians do not regularly read the book that they say they believe in. Yet, if you look at your friend of another major religion, you always see them doing those things that their religion requires of them. Why is that? What’s the point? They know that by doing those things they are going to get closer to their god and reach heaven when they die (so they believe, anyway). Much like the children of Israel as recorded in the Bible, most Christians feel that they can put God on the back burner and not pay any attention to Him until they need something from Him; we figure that our pastor is perfectly capable of giving us everything we need from the Bible without having to dust it off and read it for ourselves.

We can even take a look at our own lives for a moment and we’ll see that we innately are dedicated to almost everything other than God. We will spend countless hours studying, writing papers, and so on to earn our college degree so that we can get a higher paying job. We will work overtime at our job to impress our boss so we can get that promotion. We will even bend over backwards to impress that man/woman of our dreams. Just about everything we do is of temporary value, but what are we willing to do in order to achieve those things that are of eternal value? Pointed question, isn’t it? Indeed it is, but it’s one that every Christian needs to answer.

Why should we read our Bible? The answer is simple: we need to be just as devoted to the Word of God as we are to just about everything else in our lives, but more so. Our motivation for reading the Holy Bible should be so that we can work toward a closer relationship with our Father in heaven, as well as having a greater understanding of both His person and character. We see the dedication that those of other religions are putting into serving their false gods, so why aren’t we able to put forth the same effort in worshiping the one true God?

—Read.Pray.Worship.Live.

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